When I narrowed it down to three choices, I went to my neighborhood Sherwin Williams to find the equivalent. I wanted to buy my paint there because it’s a product that’s made in America.
After all that agonizing to find the perfect shade, I ended up with something called “grayish”. It is perfect, as you can see:
Unfortunately, made-in-America paint costs twice as much as made-in-Home Depot paint. So, the other rooms in my house will probably be less… patriotic.